General
Obadiah 1:12
But don’t look down on your brother in the day of his disaster, and don’t rejoice over the children of Judah in the day of their destruction. Don’t speak proudly in the day of distress.
Your Spirit
Loves God
Respects His discipline.
Loves Neighbor
Comforts them in trouble.
Your Body
Moral Behaviour
Refusing to celebrate the failure/downfall of others
maintaining solemnity in others' tragedy
helping refugees rather than exploiting them
suppressing the urge to say 'I told you so'